Watch this video I found on youtube made by Juggler, on what to do if a girls ask you to buy her a drink.
How you will say no to her without being rude(for the newbies, in the pick up community is like a sin to buy a girl a drink you just met), or do you buy her the drink instead?
You have to admit it is funny. The second part is cool, instead of buying her a drink he plays a game with her. Another thing you could do is tell her that you do not buy girls drinks, but you could make and exception with her if she kisses you in the mouth. That will sound playful (do not do it like all serious you will freak her out, do it in a playful way) and it will not sound rude , and many times the girl will kiss you, if that happens you can buy her the drink.
It is really simple just go out to bars and clubs 4 times a week for 3 months. Wrong Is not that easy if you are a super nerd. Why?
Because if you are a nerd it means that all you are friends are nerds to. Since all my friends are nerds and they do not go to clubs whit whom I can go? If I had a lot of popular friends that go out to bars and clubs that often, you wouldn’t have that problem of meting and dating beautiful girls. Mostly thats the way it is. If you are popular you have the hot girlfriend, but sometimes the popular guy wants more hot girls in his life, if this is your case this article isn’t for you. Every pick up gurus says “Go out to bars and clubs”, like if whats that easy when you do not have popular friends, or it really is easy?
I use to have that problem, that I didn’t have anyone to go with to clubs. The good side of this is that when I went to clubs I will approach as crazy, loving all the rejection and successful approaches. The bad side is that I didn’t improve my skills that much by going only one time to clubs every two weeks.
What could I do?
Simple, go out alone. Yes the answer is that stupid. But if you are shy and you live in small city, you could be massively scared to go out alone, maybe you will find a partner or someone you know from school and he will laugh at you, it is embarrassing, or maybe people will think you are a loser.
How can You go out alone if you are that shy?
The first step, is to get in your head the phrase: “I do not care what other people think about me”.
Then Go one night to the place but do not talk to no one, thats the rule DO NO TALK TO ANYONE. Why? Because you will realize that no one care what you do in a bar or club.
The next week, go out once, and talk to one girl and leave. The next week just do what you are supposed to do “GO OUT 4 TIMES A WEEK”.
